Pearls of Wisdom by Merry Streeter
Blog#2 How do I know if I've received a true word? (Revised)
Today dear readers, I want to address how to know whether a word of Knowledge, Wisdom, or a forth-telling comes from God or just human thought. How do we really know?
As a young married Christian woman, I visited a large Bible Study within our church. My husband (of three years) was busy serving, and there I found an extra hour in my schedule, so I decided to attend this study. Sitting rather uncomfortably in the metal chair with my pregnant tummy easily seen from a tent-like top, I wished Rick was with me. At some point, the teacher/speaker asked all to stand in a group of two or three and pray for each other. I felt cautious as an outsider but allowed the person next to me to pray. This man, a complete stranger, began to pray for my repentance. That I was to flee fornication and lust, repent of my sin, and come clean. Appalled and stunned by his words, I sat in disbelief. Didn’t say a word to correct him but felt intimidated by this forty-something man speaking falsely to this naïve twenty-one-year-old married, pregnant woman. After the meeting, I promptly left with a dark cloud over me.
This was an unfortunate case of a false prophetic utterance. I was married, living a faithful life with my husband of three years now expecting our first. His words made no sense. I could only guess he made an assessment based on his first impression. Young pregnant woman. Never mind I wore a wedding ring! I decided to be much more prayerful about where I found myself. This experience was NOT to be the norm from then on, however.
From blog #1, we’ve established that God does speak outside the Holy Bible through His communication gifts from followers of Christ, BUT, and a big but is that the Bible is the last word of the final authority to test that spoken word. In other words, if the word given through someone else cannot be backed up by scripture, we should toss it to the proverbial mental trash bin. Or, if someone is using Biblical principles but misapplied as in, “this is not true of me,” we need to disregard such a false word when it’s blatantly wrong.
But what If it DOES pass the Bible test, and we are still unsure? We can file it away in our mental file cabinet because there are times a word from the Lord of a forth-telling nature, may not come to pass for years to come.
If the word outside the Bible, brought by a follower of Christ (who believes Jesus Christ is God and that He came in the flesh), is given to you and it matches the character of God in the Bible and doesn’t veer outside the Scriptures BUT you’re not “feeling” it, what then? Do you need to FEEL it?
In some Christian circles, the expression, “bearing witness in your spirit” was used to help Christians sift through words spoken over them. The question would be asked of you, “Does this bear witness in your spirit?”
In these circles, if you felt a ring of truth or agreement inside, then you could receive it as a true word to you. This came from Romans 8:16 where it’s said,
” The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. “, context being:
…” For you did not receive a spirit of slavery that returns you to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. And if we are children, then we are heirs: heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ—if indeed we suffer with Him, so that we may also be glorified with Him.…”
Although I appreciate this validation of sonship from the Holy Spirit, I’m not sure this is the only test when it comes to words of prophecy.
So, what does the Bible say about personal words or general words of prophecy? I’ll let Paul the Apostle speak to that issue from Corinthians.
“Pursue love, and desire spiritual gifts, but especially that you may prophesy. 2 For he who speaks in a tongue does not speak to men but to God, for no one understands him; however, in the spirit he speaks mysteries. 3 But he who prophesies speaks edification and exhortation and comfort to men. 4 He who speaks in a tongue edifies himself, but he who prophesies edifies the church… but even more that you prophesied; [a]for he who prophesies is greater than he who speaks with tongues, unless indeed he interprets, that the church may receive edification.”
Paul clearly explains the motive and purpose of the word of prophecy. But how do you test it?
How is it then, brethren? Whenever you come together, each of you has a psalm, has a teaching, has a tongue, has a revelation, has an interpretation. Let all things be done for [h]edification. 27 If anyone speaks in a tongue, let there be two or at the most three, each in turn, and let one interpret. 28 But if there is no interpreter, let him keep silent in church, and let him speak to himself and to God. 29 Let two or three prophets speak, and let the others, judge. 30 But if anything is revealed to another who sits by, let the first keep silent. 31 For you can all prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be encouraged. 32 And the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets. 33 For God is not the author of [i]confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. I Cor. 14:26
Apostle Paul wants the expression of the gifts to be done as a group, so all can judge. Yes, he said judge. That is giving others the opportunity to evaluate if a word is true or not, or what it may mean if it’s unclear. Each one is not left up to their own understanding. I think this is the ideal setting by which we operate in and receive the gifts so that anything false can be kept in check like the checks and balances in our government.
The use of two or three witnesses is a guiding principle Paul examples here:
“This is the third time I am coming to you. EVERY FACT IS TO BE CONFIRMED BY THE TESTIMONY OF TWO OR THREE WITNESSES” II Cor. 13:1 NASB In the context that this verse is written, Paul the Apostle is begging the followers of Christ in Corinth to examine themselves. He was concerned that he would find strife, jealousy, angry tempers, disputes, slanders, gossip, arrogance, disturbances among them that would cause him to mourn over those not repentant of past sins of impurity, immorality, and sensuality which they had practiced.
I believe Paul’s instructions from I Corinthians 14 is the most optimal in which the gifts of the Spirit are used so we can be sure by two or three witnesses, whether it is true and understood.
Now you may ask, have I ever had a true word from the Lord. The answer is yes, many times. One most significant was receiving a word that I would publish books. The prophecy came around 2003, and it has begun to come to pass, and when I heard it, I knew inside it was true, but was hard to believe because I’d never seen myself as a writer, but here we are. I have published my first book called, Lolly’s Fish Tale; When She Meets A Bully Face To Face! I’m still surprised by this publication, but deep in my heart of hearts, this is from the Lord. I praise God for the word that came in 2003 because it was a constant encouragement to press into writing. Also, the body of Christ to which I belong, have validated this word several times.
So, in conclusion, how do we know if a personal word of prophecy is true for us, or a word of knowledge, or wisdom?
1. Does it agree with the character of God?
2. Does it agree with the Bible’s characterization of the people of God?
3. Does it ring true as a “witness in my spirit”?
4. Does it build you up, comfort you, or admonish, entreat, or challenge you in
your walk?
5. Does your local body of Christ come into agreement with it?
I believe all these five points are a safe way to test the spirits to see if they are of God for you, dear follower of Christ and hope this helps.